It's a well known fact that guys can lose interest in a relationship very quickly. One day everything's fine, and you're being treated like a princess, the next day you're dumped and you didn't even see it coming. Follow these tips on how to keep him interested, and hopefully you'll stop your boyfriend's mind and heart from wandering.On the whole men avoid confrontation like the plague, and the words "we need to talk" make them run for the hills. If you want to know how to keep him interested, avoiding rows is a good way to start. Often men don't realise when they've upset you, and starting an argument about it will just push them away. If they've done something you're not happy with, have a calm conversation about it instead of a row, and make sure you have a kiss and cuddle after to show that everything's ok.
One of the best ways to keep a guy interested is to impress a guy with your intelligence. In case you don't know, most men admire women who are smart and women they can have interesting conversations with.
While guys may like staring at beautiful women, just these two alone will not make a guy want to stay with a woman. As you may already know, one of men's long-term goals is to establish communication with a woman. Therefore, being witty or intelligent will help you and your man establish communication.
One of the main complaints men have about their girlfriends is that they are too clingy. Even though you're in a committed relationship, you should still make the effort to keep up with your own friends and pursue your own interests. This will give you something to talk to your boyfriend about and keep him interested in you and what you are doing. It will also give him some time to hang out with the guys.This might contradict the last point a little, but men love to feel that you need them, and they want to take care of you a little. Having a woman to take care of boosts a guy's ego and makes him feel manlier. You might be a strong, independent woman to the outside world, but show your boyfriend a little vulnerability and he'll be yours for keeps.
Have you ever been accused of being to clingy or smothering? After the discovery phase of a relationship, men generally don't talk too much. It's not that they've lost interest in you it's just that they feel more comfortable being with you or away from you. They go back to watching the game with the guys or attending the weekly poker night again. And please, no inquisitions afterwards. Men feel that they don't have to explain or elaborate on every single thing that they did while you were apart. Not that they don't want to share. They just don't feel l it's important. Trust me, if it were important, they'd share it with you.
In the case of women, our love grows more when we're with our partner. The one thing a woman has to accept is that men deal with things differently but still have practically the same result. When the Roman poet Sextus Propertius first penned the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" in his Elegies, he was most probably referring to how men deal with romance. Let him miss you! Another thing: show dependence but not too much though. Most men like the feeling of control or the semblance of it. By showing that you rely on him for security for example means a lot.
Have you started taking your guy for granted? How long has it been since you took the pains to impress him? Read up on the latest sports events and find out facts about his favorite player. If you can tell him a thing or two he will be super impressed. Besides you will bring him closer to you. It's okay if you want to behave like a tramp for your man in your bedroom! He would be pleasantly surprised if you take the trouble to spice up your sex life! If he is sexually satisfied with you - he will not lose interest in you.
Probably one of the more common mistakes (that you don't even realize or won't admit you've been doing) is taking him for granted. Whatever happened to that sexy, hot and interesting woman he fell in love with? Just because you've been together for years doesn't give you the right to put on 20 pounds and go out in jogging pants and an old college sweater. Always try to look good both for yourself and for him.
[How To Keep Him Interested]
One of the best ways to keep a guy interested is to impress a guy with your intelligence. In case you don't know, most men admire women who are smart and women they can have interesting conversations with.
While guys may like staring at beautiful women, just these two alone will not make a guy want to stay with a woman. As you may already know, one of men's long-term goals is to establish communication with a woman. Therefore, being witty or intelligent will help you and your man establish communication.
One of the main complaints men have about their girlfriends is that they are too clingy. Even though you're in a committed relationship, you should still make the effort to keep up with your own friends and pursue your own interests. This will give you something to talk to your boyfriend about and keep him interested in you and what you are doing. It will also give him some time to hang out with the guys.This might contradict the last point a little, but men love to feel that you need them, and they want to take care of you a little. Having a woman to take care of boosts a guy's ego and makes him feel manlier. You might be a strong, independent woman to the outside world, but show your boyfriend a little vulnerability and he'll be yours for keeps.
Have you ever been accused of being to clingy or smothering? After the discovery phase of a relationship, men generally don't talk too much. It's not that they've lost interest in you it's just that they feel more comfortable being with you or away from you. They go back to watching the game with the guys or attending the weekly poker night again. And please, no inquisitions afterwards. Men feel that they don't have to explain or elaborate on every single thing that they did while you were apart. Not that they don't want to share. They just don't feel l it's important. Trust me, if it were important, they'd share it with you.
In the case of women, our love grows more when we're with our partner. The one thing a woman has to accept is that men deal with things differently but still have practically the same result. When the Roman poet Sextus Propertius first penned the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" in his Elegies, he was most probably referring to how men deal with romance. Let him miss you! Another thing: show dependence but not too much though. Most men like the feeling of control or the semblance of it. By showing that you rely on him for security for example means a lot.
Have you started taking your guy for granted? How long has it been since you took the pains to impress him? Read up on the latest sports events and find out facts about his favorite player. If you can tell him a thing or two he will be super impressed. Besides you will bring him closer to you. It's okay if you want to behave like a tramp for your man in your bedroom! He would be pleasantly surprised if you take the trouble to spice up your sex life! If he is sexually satisfied with you - he will not lose interest in you.
Probably one of the more common mistakes (that you don't even realize or won't admit you've been doing) is taking him for granted. Whatever happened to that sexy, hot and interesting woman he fell in love with? Just because you've been together for years doesn't give you the right to put on 20 pounds and go out in jogging pants and an old college sweater. Always try to look good both for yourself and for him.
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